What Do I Say Now?

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you had no clue what to say? I’m not just talking about a simple loss for words—I mean being so overwhelmed that you don’t even know how to begin the conversation. If you’ve been there, you’re in good company. I think that happens to all of us!

If I’m honest, it’s easy to avoid those conversations because they can be uncomfortable. We don’t want to say the wrong thing, give bad advice, or make a mistake that someone else pays the price for. It feels safer to stay silent than to risk getting it wrong.

But even though it might be more comfortable to avoid difficult conversations, I’m not convinced that’s always the right choice. What if Jesus wants to lead you into a tough conversation so that someone else can find healing? What if the conversation nobody is having is the very one you need to start? Could it be that a fear of failure is keeping us from helping someone else find faith and freedom?

There’s an incredible passage of Scripture where Jesus encourages the disciples with these words:

“For the Good News must first be preached to all nations. But when you are arrested and stand trial, don’t worry in advance about what to say. Just say what God tells you at that time, for it is not you who will be speaking, but the Holy Spirit.”
Mark 13:10-11 NLT

Jesus challenges His followers to trust the Holy Spirit to guide their words. In this context, the disciples are facing persecution and trials. The command isn’t to compromise—it’s to stand boldly, courageously, and in truth. We know that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and that no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6).

Jesus also says:

“You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
John 8:31-32 NLT

And:

“So if the Son sets you free, you are truly free.”
John 8:36 NLT

Being bold in our conversations has the power to transform lives—not by our ability, but by the Holy Spirit working through us.

“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. And you will be my witnesses, telling people about me everywhere—in Jerusalem, throughout Judea, in Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”
Acts of the Apostles 1:8 NLT

So, how do we do this?

1. Hide the Word in Our Hearts

“I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.”
Psalms 119:11 NLT

The more we read, study, and understand the Word of God, the deeper it becomes rooted in our hearts. We begin to understand the heart of Jesus and can recall His words when someone else needs them. He honors His Word just as He honors His name! (Psalm 138:2)

2. Renew Our Minds

“Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”
Romans 12:2 NLT

When we meditate on God's Word and allow it to renew and transform our minds, it literally changes the way we think. Our perspective shifts. Hard conversations don’t have to be harsh ones. With tact, grace, and the empowerment of the Spirit, we can speak with authority and love to see lives changed.

3. Be Willing & Say What God Will Give You At The Time

As Acts 1:8 reminds us, we are empowered by the Holy Spirit to be His witnesses. Our lives reflect His goodness. But we must be willing to engage in these conversations. We can’t let fear hold us back.

My prayer for you today is that you would trust Jesus when He leads you into difficult places, empowers you to be a witness, trust the words He gives you at the time, and gives you opportunities to bring healing and freedom to those who need it most.

Would you pray this with me?

Jesus, I trust You with my life. I will go wherever You want me to go. I will do whatever You want me to do. I will say whatever You want me to say. I pray that through my life, You will help others find freedom, healing, restoration, and faith in You. Thank You, Jesus, for trusting me to trust You. It’s in Your name I pray, Amen.

Matt Taylor

Matt Taylor is a devoted husband, father, and ordained minister with the Assemblies of God. Alongside his wife, Christy, he co-founded The 31 Co., a faith-driven initiative to spread the gospel with joy and hope for the future. Residing in Brandon, MS, with their two sons, Josiah and Stevie, Matt cherishes quality time with family and friends. He enjoys playing with his boys and is passionate about mentoring and sharing the gospel with the next generation.

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